BobbyD asked:
im not a desperate guy, and ive had two major relationships before but for some reason my confidence is completely shot down right now. I feel like I cant trust the person im with because of the previous two girls I have been with have totally been dishonest with me which led to the relationships ending.
im not a desperate guy, and ive had two major relationships before but for some reason my confidence is completely shot down right now. I feel like I cant trust the person im with because of the previous two girls I have been with have totally been dishonest with me which led to the relationships ending.
Now my confidence is shot down, is there any ways I can improve my confidence and go up to girls without fearing that I cant trust them?
thanks. btw im 18.
Kaitlyn
Katherine
Though all of us would wish otherwise, it simply does not work this way. One does not build confidence for an act before doing it; one builds confidence for an act BY doing it. Go out and take risks with women. Your confidence will grow as a result, as you will have faced your fear of getting hurt.
Alexis
Do you have any close female friends? If so, have they been totally dishonest with you the way your exes were? To get over the feeling of not being able to trust the girls you want to date, you’re going to have to learn that girls can be trustworthy in the same way you learned that they weren’t. Having female friends who are trustworthy is a good start. Also, for the first little while, try to stick with girls that someone you know knows well enough to be able to reassure you that you’re not being duped. Once you’ve dated a couple honest girls, you should be able to get your confidence back.
Kyle
your confidence is something only you can control, but you need to realize that anything dishonest those previous girls did is on them and has nothing to do with you, you need to be choosier about who you pick next time, someone who is loving, caring , and honest, if you can find someone like that who wants to date you you will have a much better experience than just dating any old pretty face that passes you by on the street…good luck
Maria
its not ur confidence thats the problem its your trust in women that is the problem. you will ave plenty of confidence to go out there and meet them but thena s u get to no thema nd they do things thats when u start to mistrust them. this wont be easy to repair but it will get easier with time as u learn new technquies for seeing whether or not a gurl is genuine. the best way to determine whether a gurlis trustworthy or not is to ask her several questions abut a particular subject such as boyfriends and ex partners take note of her responses then a week or so later as her again if the story has changed then u know not to trust her but if its the same then at least that give u a bit of hope to let urself trust.
surround urself with friends and go slow ur only 18 u have heaps of time.
Wyatt
Ive been through that with guys It is hard to get over that….Just remeber that new girls are not the old ones give them a chance and be honest with them and hope they will be honest with you….Dont get yourself down over old pain..Think of it as starting completely over…
James
yeah doggy dogg i lost alot good hot babys for not thinking that she would even want to talk too me but i know im cute i dontt know how big a dick size is supposed to big cause since so many of us lie i dont evne know n im 21 but i know how 2 do what they want in bed man just say fuck it if she says no too u at least u went up n say u no what its ur lost man rember b i t c h s anit s h it but h o ‘s n tricksall we c in them is t i ts p us s y n a s s n nice lips
Briana
join the marine corp, they will denifitely build up your confidence.