Ask Denny Strecker

Occupationally: The reason her career is the most important is because if she didn’t work in a field where we would meet each other, then none of the remaining characteristics would matter. Also, her career could explain some of the following characteristics she would have which other women do not. Ideally, she would work in the defense industry. This could include the military, one of the government intelligence agencies, or even a private military, security, or intelligence organization. Her career would be her highest priority, and she would go above and beyond the requirements of her job, and exceed expectations to achieve a place of leadership and respect among her coworkers.

Mentally: She would have a strong personality and a level head. The ability to think realistically and thoroughly is desired. Her ability to accurately assess a given situation with intuition based on experience and reality are highly valued. Her intelligence would be greater than most, especially in areas that are present in her career. A strong work ethic and the willingness to compromise in order to accomplish her goals would be great.

Emotionally: It would be nice to meet a woman who expressed emotions at the correct time, to a limited degree. A small, cute smile or occasionally raising her voice in anger would be pleasant. Not that my ideal woman is completely void of feelings, but rather she has a superb talent for thinking clearly without emotion when required, and expressing it in the correct setting as she sees necessary.

Socially: I would like to meet a woman who is able to enjoy being alone. She would be an introvert, but maintain great interpersonal skills. This would be in contrast to her small amount of close friends, and rare presence at noncompulsory social gatherings. And despite her limited range of expressed emotions, and preferred social isolation, I would enjoy it if she was close to me, and we could be open and romantic with each other.

Physically: She would be a creature of beauty. Her appearance would reveal that she takes pleasure for her own sake, yet clings to nothing that is unnecessary for survival. She would take the customary measures to make herself look and feel as she pleased, but would not find it a necessity. I would like a woman who is stubbornly trying to maintain her individuality, and expresses such without appearing eccentric.

Spiritually: Ideally, I prefer a woman who was raised in a Christian household, but the actual nature of her spiritual devotion to religious ritualism is not as pertinent as other qualities that define her as a human being.

Sexually: Again, this area isn’t the most vital of characteristics, but a few basic ideas will suffice. She would engage in a sexual relationship when she felt her emotional connection to her partner was strong enough to maintain a stable, functioning relationship, and would not do so until then. Also, bisexuality is acceptable, and, to be honest, is a realistic expectation. It would be nice for her to not need sex from a relationship. I find it attractive for a woman to be strong enough to utilize platonic love.

Does she exist?
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Cameron